Well first off, what year is your car? If it's 1995 or older, no need to use Dexcool, just the regular green (or now yellow I guess) coolant.
If it's 1996 or newer, it was filled with Dexcool from the factory and it would be best to use Dexcool. The reason it's not needed on an earlier car that was filled with green coolant is the internals of the engine are already plated with silicates. Dexcool will provide no extended drain intervals here, and that was its original purpose. There's no harm in changing it sooner, but the official change interval for Dexcool is 5 years or 150,000 miles. Most of the time, people reach 5 years before they reach 150,000 miles. And this isn't THAT much longer than other coolants -- they have always been recommended at either 2, 3, or 4 year change intervals. 5 years isn't that long on a modern coolant.
Dexcool is orangish-reddish. But don't go by color. Mopar HOAT is also red. The color is simply a dye. Look for Dexcool...Havoline sells it, and Prestone sells it. I wouldn't personally use the Prestone Yellow stuff that is supposed to be good for everything. Anything that's good for everything is ideal for nothing.
Also, no need to flush anything. Simply drain it and refill. Put a package of the GM sealing supplements into the lower radiator hose and fill 'er up (slowly). I personally buy the gallons of full-strength coolant and pre-mix with the gallons of distilled water, for a perfect 50/50 ratio. If you're flushing, you have no idea what your ratio is. Whatever you do, just get the ratio right, even if you do use tap water. You can also buy the pre-mixed coolant in the jug, and all you do is pour it in. More expensive, but then you don't have to measure and mix.