The OP has a '19 XTS, so I don't understand why he is trying to program it. With mine there are no numbered 1 and 2 key fobs, but just two key fobs ie. no numbers on the fob, where as with my '04 SRX the key fob was numbered 1 and 2. I took one and my wife the other but she is not able to drive. With the one I took, I set all my preferences and saved them. So now I get in the cluster that I am driver 1. My wife has the 2nd fob in her purse, but I wrapped it in tin foil to prevent the signal being read by the car...sometimes the car would read hers instead of mine, and would say I'm driver 2...she has it in her purse in case I ever encounter trouble with mine. I wonder if I took hers (and gave her mine) and set my preferences, would it would say I was driver 1 or driver 2...