I bought a new 2019 Camry that had this exact problem which led me to trade for the XT4. After letting Toyota play games with me over 3 repair attempts, a senior mechanic pulled me aside and told me off the record that all 2019 Camrys and Highlanders had the shuddering problem and it is NOT repairable. Toyota refuses to acknowledge it as a faulty design and they're doing fuel pumps, transmission resets etc to pacify owners. The problem according to the technician is the marriage of the 8 speed transmission and hi output smaller engine. The car does not recognize which gear to select when rolling around a turn and the driver then pressing the accelerator. You have to punch the pedal to get the transmission and engine in sync and THEN the car finally takes off-but no soft departures! If you don't punch it, it can get pretty sluggish to the point of jarring your head back and forth.
I'm finding the same issue seems to exist in my XT4. It really lunges at times and jerks at initial acceleration. I've been practicing a smoother depression of the pedal by pushing my foot against the engine housing for better stability and it helps but isn't always effective. When going over large speed bumps, the car downshifts too far and you cannot glide back into a sufficient throttle to keep the vehicle's momentum. The downshift that the speedbumps cause make the engine roar and in that low of a gear, the car won't get out of its own way. The more I focus on micro-controlling the accelerator, I find things smooth out a little. I've had it 3 yrs and it still gets pretty independent at times. It is what it is. The performance and enjoyment I get from this vehicle far outweighs the occasional Ford Pinto impressions.