You dont need a dealer for everything. I've got serious issues with the dealer in my town, maybe if I go out of town i'll use another. Anyway, its not illegal in ANY state to replace a cluster panel and not transfer mileage, what is illegal is to not disclose that the mileage is incorrect.
Anyway, I want to keep my mileage the same I dont care about going to zero, I just wanted intructions to transfer it. I think I'll ask the guys at the local audio shop and see what resources they have. thanks for the replies.