i would say get ACDELCO brand
they do ACDELCO Part # 45A0798I don't know if A/C Delco makes tie rods. I would think most any brand would be OK. There is not much to it.
so can it wiggle or should it stay firm and still?Jack the wheel up and grab it at 3:00 and 9:00 and wiggle it. If there is any play, look at the tie rod and you should see the play.