Outside air enters the system through body holes at the base of the windshield - under the black plastic trim/screen surrounding the wiper mechanisms.
There will never be positive pressure in the car: there are 2 flapper vents from the trunk into the rear fenderwells which constantly bleed air back to the outside. It's part of the "Flow Through" system.
RECIRC works fully, partially, or not at all depending on the HVAC duct and temp settings. You MAY hear it work over a period of 20 seconds or so. This is not the old flapper that slammed shut and the noise in the airbox changed radically. Whole different critter. I thought mine was dead, too - until I read the owner's manual and the shop manual.
If you want to remove cigar smoke, set the HVAC to floor/windshield, A/C OFF, RECIRC OFF, blower on 1 or 2 bars, and crack the rear windows about 3".