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    Angry I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Alright, so I got a phone call from my mom today and apparently katie's (the girl I was dating) mom called my mom and pretty much told her that she was really sorry about her daughters actions. They really like me a lot, and I guess what she told my mom is that her daughter is a selfish little brat. I totally agreed with that one. lol.

    Anyways, my mom got another call from one of Katie's friends moms, saying that she saw her daughter instant messaging Katie the other day, and Katie was saying how she like getting high so much more than getting drunk.

    So, when we started going out, we both made some ground rules, and I had three main rules. No drinking, no drugs, no cheating. I know some of you will disagree with those, but I have lost friends to drinking and drugs and didnt want that to happen to her. So I told her if she ever did those things that I would break up with her.

    I guess thats why she broke up with me, which means she's been lying to me, and she made up some bullshit story about not wanting to date me since way back in April. I'm so upset about this. I seriously just want to go home and beat some sense into her, and tell her to stop hanging out with this particular group of friends that do drugs. Everything was fine until this happened. But I think her parents are making her have a drug test, and not letting her drive. So MAYBE she will get something through her thick head.




    ok, im done.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Control freak you are.If you don't want to be around something then don't.You can not control another persons actions,so don't try.You can't get pissed at someone for doing stuff that maybe he,or she needs to go through.Drugs are wrong!Do I do drugs no,have I,YEP.I wouldn't trade my life experiences for nothing,the good and bad ones.Be a partner to this person not a parent.If your 18 and in college you better lighten up a little.Date dozens of girls,have fun,learn,party,be a kid.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Wow, sorry to hear that! At least you are a decent enough guy to have high standards like that. But it sounds like it's time to move on.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Quote Originally Posted by rp64ctsv View Post
    Control freak you are.If you don't want to be around something then don't.You can not control another persons actions,so don't try.You can't get pissed at someone for doing stuff that maybe he,or she needs to go through.Drugs are wrong!Do I do drugs no,have I,YEP.I wouldn't trade my life experiences for nothing,the good and bad ones.Be a partner to this person not a parent.If your 18 and in college you better lighten up a little.Date dozens of girls,have fun,learn,party,be a kid.
    Uhh, my school is 15% girls, and the parties are lame as hell! And maybe its just because I have lost friends to both drinking and drugs, but I dont know, I just dont like it.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    I understand your situation completely.If it's meant to be she'll be back,now go find one of her friends and see what she's doing tonight.18=fun,get out of room,go find lame party,better than no party at all.I'm on your side here dude

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Dude, if you want to continue the relationship, I think you should surprise her with another chance. She assumed that you were going to end the relationship because of her actions so she obviously felt ashamed of herself and ended the relationship for you. Just remind her not to do it again.


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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Quote Originally Posted by pimpin88 View Post
    I'm so upset about this.
    Dude, she did you a HUGE favor. Be thankful that you didn't get dragged down with her.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    You should do her sister, and her mom, and her friends... mostly for entertainment.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    boo hooo.

    what kind of drugs? advil, alcohol, weed, cocaine, meth? That's a pretty broad term "doing drugs."

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Quote Originally Posted by Jesda View Post
    You should do her sister, and her mom, and her friends... mostly for entertainment.
    Jesda, couldnt agree more...and BTW Katie...its puff, puff, pass...no bogarting the J.


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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Quote Originally Posted by AirJigga25 View Post
    boo hooo.

    what kind of drugs? advil, alcohol, weed, cocaine, meth? That's a pretty broad term "doing drugs."
    You're counting weed and alchohol as drugs,ignore everything I have said.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Quote Originally Posted by rp64ctsv View Post
    You're counting weed and alchohol as drugs,ignore everything I have said.
    yeah those don't count right?

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Well it's better you lost her to pot then to another penis. Because, that would really suck. But you can't really control someone, even someone as close as your girlfriend. And no offence, but it's pretty tough to find a girl (or anyone) in our age range that doesn't drink or do drugs. Everyone drinks, even that girl I went out with on Tuesday drinks alot. But it's good that you're seperated, she would have just made you feel worse, plus there's a poissiblity that she could have dragged you down into that seedy underworld too.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    im not sure what she was doing, but i have lost a friend because of weed.

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