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    Quote Originally Posted by Jesda View Post
    You should do her sister, and her mom, and her friends... mostly for entertainment.
    hahahaha. her friends i would do. lol. but umm, her sister is like 9 or 10, and her mom. well,

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    I don't think he's being controlling I think he was saying that he's not into those things and if she was then he didn't want to date her. And/or he would not tolerate those actions from a partner. That's not controlling that's letting your feeling be known.

    He has morals and some common sense rules. Don't knock that, it's a rare quality in young people these days.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Quote Originally Posted by codewize View Post
    I don't think he's being controlling I think he was saying that he's not into those things and if she was then he didn't want to date her. And/or he would not tolerate those actions from a partner. That's not controlling that's letting your feeling be known.

    He has morals and some common sense rules. Don't knock that, it's a rare quality in young people these days.

    Thanks codewize. Thats exactly what I was trying to say. Im not trying to control her life. I just dont like it because of my friends that died.

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    "Women. Can't live with 'em. Can't kill 'em!"

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    I think it's great that you made your mind up about certain things and are sticking to them. Peer pressure can be a funny thing, and it's nice to see that you aren't following the crowd on this one. I don't think drinking or smoking a lil weed is bad, but when it becomes a daily thing it can ruin people, and I've had it happen to close friends of mine as well. If this is the path she wants to take, then she did you a favor and you will be better off without her. If she was experimenting then maybe you guys should talk it out and then decide whether to continue the relationship or not. Either way, props for having standards.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    I know what you mean, i've seen weed bring down a lot of my old friends. They're all burnouts now who hang out in parking lots all day and smoke. Some even got into cocaine. Definatley people I don't want to associate myself with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gary88 View Post
    I know what you mean, i've seen weed bring down a lot of my old friends. They're all burnouts now who hang out in parking lots all day and smoke. Some even got into cocaine. Definatley people I don't want to associate myself with.
    That is exactly what happened to all of her friends who started with weed, and now like yours, some have gotten into cocaine.

    I really am glad that I was able to influence her decision when her friends first started doing stuff, because otherwise I fear she would have been in the same boat that they are now. Im going home on weds for a small labor day break. Her mom wants me to come over to talk to me, and make sure I'm all right, and I'll probably talk to Katie a lot, and figure out what the heck is going on. I might even take her out for a little tray sliding. lol. We did that tonight out in the parking lot with cookie sheets and plastic trays. So that brightened my night a little bit.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    just keep looking dude ....youll find the girl you want eventually ...took me 10 years but im fairly certain ive found mine....Dont loose faith , becuse if you knew my entire story youd realize if i can do it ...litterally anyone can ....and when you find it there wont be any comprimises like what you had there ...itll click and you for at least 2 days wont belive whats going on ...keep yourself out there ....and dont let this girl come back ...get your closure and shut the door behind you gently ....this wasnt the one ....trust me ...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stoneage_Caddy View Post
    just keep looking dude ....youll find the girl you want eventually ...took me 10 years but im fairly certain ive found mine....Dont loose faith , becuse if you knew my entire story youd realize if i can do it ...litterally anyone can ....and when you find it there wont be any comprimises like what you had there ...itll click and you for at least 2 days wont belive whats going on ...keep yourself out there ....and dont let this girl come back ...get your closure and shut the door behind you gently ....this wasnt the one ....trust me ...
    i don't know man, it's so hard to close the door on this one. everything was absolutely perfect, except for when a small group of friends would get involved. I know and am friends with most of her friends, but there is a group of about 5 or 6 of them, who i used to be friends with, but now i cant stand them because all they do is smoke weed, drink, and i know at least two of them do cocaine. thankfully, she isnt friends with those two anymore. its just so hard, and it came out of the blue because just like two or three weeks ago, we had made plans for a big skiing trip, and homecoming is coming up soon, and all this other fun stuff. oh well, i'll get the real story when i get home. right now, i am going on a lot of she told me, that her friend told her that so and so did this. . . but katie called me today, and i kinda went off on her because she had lied to me about it. and she admitted to doing it, but i guess it was only once. i can only hope for now.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    you CAN do beatter ...

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Umm.... I'm stayin' far away from this one......


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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Quote Originally Posted by Stoneage_Caddy View Post
    just keep looking dude ....youll find the girl you want eventually ...took me 10 years but im fairly certain ive found mine....Dont loose faith , becuse if you knew my entire story youd realize if i can do it ...litterally anyone can ....and when you find it there wont be any comprimises like what you had there ...itll click and you for at least 2 days wont belive whats going on ...keep yourself out there ....and dont let this girl come back ...get your closure and shut the door behind you gently ....this wasnt the one ....trust me ...
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    Quote Originally Posted by DopeStar 156 View Post
    Umm.... I'm stayin' far away from this one......


    Dope, I am not here to judge, nor tell you how to run your life. I just wanted her to not do these things because of what I have had happen to close friends.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Plus, you have a sweet Caddy! And she doesnt.

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    Re: I figured out why my girlfriend broke up with me!

    Quote Originally Posted by codewize View Post
    I don't think he's being controlling I think he was saying that he's not into those things and if she was then he didn't want to date her. And/or he would not tolerate those actions from a partner. That's not controlling that's letting your feeling be known.

    He has morals and some common sense rules. Don't knock that, it's a rare quality in young people these days.
    What,I don't know what you read.What I got was,she better stop if she wants to be with me.Morels?Common sense?Rare quality in young people?Kids are Kids dude,i'm not knocking him just saying ditch your little high school girl friend,you can't trust her anyway.Tell me more about our troubled,no morals,stupid youth.Enlighten me

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