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TomDeville · #76 (**permalink**) 03-30-08, 01:40 AM

Hey Dope you've even got Sir Sandy
in on this; so I've just got to pipe in & say:

That your ex buddy is a dick; and, that
chick was never good enough for you!
I always thought she was kind of lame and
pastety; even back when you went to Atlantic
City and were all in love on the beach & shit.
You could have done better; and, now I trust
you are and/or otherwise can.

Best Regards,

TomDeville

Destroyer · #77 (**permalink**) 03-30-08, 09:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandy

Yo, Dope, remember me? Millburn, NJ ?

Think of a girlfriend as a dove. You set her free, and she flies away...
if she returns, she's yours;
if not....she never was!

Find Another, or better yet, buy another Caddy !!

If your wife boinks your best friend, leaves you and the comes back after he's through with her, you'll take her back?.

CIWS · #78 (**permalink**) 03-30-08, 10:17 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sandy

Think of a girlfriend as a dove. You set her free, and she flies away...
if she returns, she's yours;
if not....she never was!

Then wait till dove season opens....

(no offense Dope, just having some fun with the inet)

70eldo · #79 (**permalink**) 04-01-08, 06:39 PM

Hey DopeStar!
Love sucks! My other alias is Blues Almighty. A broken heart can corner you for a while, but you will recover.

All the best!

**DopeStar 156** · #80 (**permalink**) 04-04-08, 12:17 AM

Well aparently I wasn't as good as I thought. I can't stop thinking about it lately and to be honest I kinda blew it with the girl I was seeing because I kept talking about the break up. I didn't even realize I was doing it too. I haven't been all right ever since I found out the two of them are officially dating and now that the entire family has taken quite a liking to that little *******........

This is getting to be more than I can handle.....

CIWS · #81 (**permalink**) 04-04-08, 11:08 AM

If you've ever quit smoking (or any hard habit) you'll realize that even though you have stopped the thoughts are still there. You think about it from time to time. The longer it has been since you stopped, the less you think about it, but only time solves that and unfortunately there is no way to speed that up. It will pass though.

No surprise that another chick isn't going to want to hear you talk about a previous break up / relationship for very long. Would you want to listen to a chick talk about their previous break up for very long if you were dating ? It's simply a sign the person isn't over them yet and it is weighing on their mind. If they are looking for someone to be with they recognize that will not work because they will want you looking toward a future and not the past. Again not a big deal. If you now acknowledge that, you can prevent it in the future. Concentrate on what you want to do, not what you have done.

77CDV · #82 (**permalink**) 04-04-08, 11:41 PM

Ups and downs are to be expected. I was really surprised you'd started dating again so quickly. Just give it time so you can get perspective. Best thing to do is not to keep track of her. That only prolongs the pain. Keep focused on school, work, and the cars. In time, she'll fade and you'll wonder why you thought it so important to hold on to her. Play Sinatra's version of "I Wanna Be Around" to get in the right mindset.