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**DopeStar 156** · #31 (**permalink**) 03-09-08, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted by OffThaHorseCEO

Hell you live in fla im sure its warm right about now, hit the beach

Thanks, I live in Jersey though.... Haha.

**Florian** · #32 (**permalink**) 03-10-08, 01:06 AM

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Originally Posted by DopeStar 156

.....after making a really depressing post in another thread which I now wish I hadn't done I guess I'm forced to explain where I've been for the last few weeks and what's been going on......

...snip....

The lesson here is don't make someone your entire world because they can take it all with them when they go......

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Originally Posted by DopeStar 156

In one day I completely filled a 5 subject notebook, cover to cover with my feelings and emotions expressed into words and depressed/enfuriated drawings....

I even wrote on the manilla colored parts.....

Dope,

I went thru the same thing as you, with the big exception of that mine was a marriage, not an engagement. The damn dirty whore ran off w/another swingin dick and then had the nuts to tell me she wanted to be friends. Fook her.
Anyway, you have to focus on something that makes you happy...comic books/Caddys/music, whatever it may be and work your way past the shitty emotions. You may not eat much, you may not go out much BUT you cant dwell on the past. It took me about a year to get over my situation. You will get thru yours. Remember, there is new poon on the horizon, and there will be no emotional strings attached...its a fresh start.
If ya need an ear, or need to spill...feel free to PM.

F

77CDV · #33 (**permalink**) 03-10-08, 02:39 PM

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Originally Posted by Destroyer

I may try it myself and destroy some stuff tonight.

I thought that was your SOP all along!

**DopeStar 156** · #34 (**permalink**) 03-10-08, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Florian

Dope,

I went thru the same thing as you, with the big exception of that mine was a marriage, not an engagement. The damn dirty whore ran off w/another swingin dick and then had the nuts to tell me she wanted to be friends. Fook her.
Anyway, you have to focus on something that makes you happy...comic books/Caddys/music, whatever it may be and work your way past the shitty emotions. You may not eat much, you may not go out much BUT you cant dwell on the past. It took me about a year to get over my situation. You will get thru yours. Remember, there is new poon on the horizon, and there will be no emotional strings attached...its a fresh start.
If ya need an ear, or need to spill...feel free to PM.

F

Thanks. I'm feeling ok actually. I took a little vacation to NY to see some cousins of mine I haven't seen in a while and it did me good to get away for a while. I've also been seeing a lotta people I haven't had the time to see so I'm gathering tons if insight on the whole thing. It still hurts but it's getting easier as time goes on......

Everyone here's being really cool.....

NOT ON MY WATCH · #35 (**permalink**) 03-10-08, 05:59 PM

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Originally Posted by DopeStar 156

Thanks. I'm feeling ok actually. I took a little vacation to NY to see some cousins of mine I haven't seen in a while and it did me good to get away for a while. I've also been seeing a lotta people I haven't had the time to see so I'm gathering tons if insight on the whole thing. It still hurts but it's getting easier as time goes on......

Everyone here's being really cool.....

Glad to hear it, DS - keep up the positive activities.

**The Tony Show** · #36 (**permalink**) 03-10-08, 06:46 PM

Having been through practically the exact same scenario, I can offer you advice that will seem stupid now, but in time you'll realize that it's great:

Be glad this happened now, before you got married. At least there's no divorce, loss of property and other legal entanglements. It'll hurt for a while, but once you move past it you'll realize that the two of you splitting was a good thing.

**I~LUV~Caddys8792** · #37 (**permalink**) 03-10-08, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by The Tony Show

Be glad this happened now, before you got married. At least there's no divorce, loss of property and other legal entanglements.

Yeah, exactly. Atleast this way you're not "tangled up in blue" to quote Bob Dylan. And by blue I mean legal problems.

Destroyer · #38 (**permalink**) 03-11-08, 12:57 AM

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Originally Posted by I~LUV~Caddys8792

Yeah, exactly. Atleast this way you're not "tangled up in blue" to quote Bob Dylan. And by blue I mean legal problems.

Let alone kids and all that crap. You got out of this squeeky clean Dope and its probably the last time you will make such a quik getaway.

Blackout · #39 (**permalink**) 03-11-08, 01:02 AM

Damn Dopestar that sucks to hear man. I say we go to Atlantic City and I'll get ya a hooker and we can paint the town red

**DopeStar 156** · #40 (**permalink**) 03-11-08, 12:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Blackout

we can paint the town red

How about black.......

Blackout · #41 (**permalink**) 03-11-08, 01:05 PM

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Originally Posted by DopeStar 156

How about black.......

It's your day so whatever you want

gdwriter · #42 (**permalink**) 03-12-08, 02:35 AM

This episode just confirms my belief that all Samanthas are evil (that was my ex-wife's name).

Sorry to hear it, but it sounds like you're already coming around. And as others have said, it's good you got out now. Having been through an ugly and very expensive divorce, I can tell you you don't want to go through that.

**DopeStar 156** · #43 (**permalink**) 03-12-08, 02:36 AM

Really bad day today....... Nothing happened, just went into a total relapse...... Some people have expressed they think I should get some kind of help.......

MauiV · #44 (**permalink**) 03-12-08, 02:59 AM

I would suggest you listen to the people that you deal with on a personal level if that is their suggestion.

I went into deep depression after a bad break up. It isnt worth it. Do whatever you need to do to stay in a healthy state of mind. There is no shame in getting that help and it is WAY better than all the other options.

NOT ON MY WATCH · #45 (**permalink**) 03-12-08, 03:13 AM

DS - definitely sounds like it's time for you to talk to a professional. There are plenty of mental health clinics in every state - just CALL ONE near you. Your health insurance company can also point you in the right direction.

Don't hesitate. Just call.