: Why Women Cheat?



firstimecaddi
12-09-07, 09:59 PM
Top 7 Reasons Women Cheat


How many of you guys can put your hands on the bible, the gita, the koran, etc and swear that your woman has never cheated on you ?

Have you ever cheated on your woman ? Have you ever broken her heart ? Have you ever taken her for granted ? Have you ever neglected her ? Have you ever wronged her ?

Guess what ? She has returned the favor--in a quiet way--you have been cuckoled!!!


Reasons women cheat:


1. NOT ENOUGH SEX

2. REVENGE/ PAYBACK FOR PAST WRONGS

3. LACK OF INTIMACY IN THE RELATIONSHIP

4. SHE FEELS NEGLECTED, IGNORED, UNDERAPPRECIATED

5. HER MAN WITHDRAWS EMOTIONALLY

6. BEDROOM BOREDOM

7. REVENGE FOR HIS CHEATING--#1 reason women cheat.

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You guys notice something--when men cheat, it is nearly always to satisfy their libido.

But when women cheat--it's not really about satisfying their libido--it's more about healing their hearts and egos.

KEEP ON CHEATING GIRLS!!!!!

CadillacGurl
12-09-07, 10:11 PM
I've cheated... never again... stupidest thing I could have done. If you want to cheat, just end the relationship.

CadillacSTS42005
12-09-07, 10:14 PM
yup and i didnt commit any of those reasons

Playdrv4me
12-09-07, 10:51 PM
I haven't been with alot of girls, but I did feel really bad for cheating on the one that I DID cheat on because I knew she was the most faithful, a truly good hearted girl.

I knew she didnt cheat on me because a year after my moment of weakness, when we weren't dating anymore and were fighting about something stupid just as friends (I broke it off because I just wasnt that into her anymore), I told her what I did, and instead of getting angry or scratching the shit out of my car or returning the favor by telling me she did too, she simply looked into my eyes and told me she was disappointed in me because she thought I was different. That cuts pretty deep.

Of course, the girl I do love, is the one girl I could never trust to be faithful as far as I could spit.

dkozloski
12-09-07, 11:03 PM
My first wife cheated on me because she wanted me to beat the hell out of her so she could clean me out in divorce court. She was dumb enough to brag about it in front of one of my friends and it got back to me. Ironically, when we finally divorced I got everything including all her clothes and personal property that I gave away or hauled to the landfill. After it was all over I said to myself that if I ever find a decent woman it'll be wonderful and I was right. Nine wonderful years with a great woman before she passed away. I was lucky enough to find another one just like her and it's been over seven years of bliss. I've got a great son we adopted and three great dogs. Life is good.

CadillacSTS42005
12-09-07, 11:10 PM
kudos to ya Koz

CadillacGurl
12-09-07, 11:29 PM
:yeah: You're one of the lucky ones...

dkozloski
12-10-07, 12:49 AM
Getting along with a life partner is a piece of cake. All you have to do is your share of the chores and respect the other person. Don't waste your time trying to change them. Accept them the way they are and be thankful that they are doing the same with you. It's all in the attitude. If problems are developing it's because you aren't listening and paying attention. If you get stuck with a bum that doesn't respect you or themselves, dump'em. Get married. It isn't fair to the kids or your sweety to leave them hanging. If you don't want to be committed to somebody tell'em and leave so they can find somebody else with their head screwed on with right hand threads. You're cheating them out of what life is really about. These off and off deals are really tough on kids. Don't do it to'em. They don't deserve it. Don't be a no good bum. Pay your child support no matter how much it grinds you to see your ex suporting her new BF with your money. The money is for the kids. If she's stealing from them that makes her a bad person.

Jesda
12-10-07, 01:03 AM
Because their uncle touched them, and now they're sluts with no self-esteem.

Next question.

AMGoff
12-10-07, 02:43 AM
How many of you guys can put your hands on the bible, the gita, the koran, etc and swear that your woman has never cheated on you ?

Have you ever cheated on your woman ? Have you ever broken her heart ? Have you ever taken her for granted ? Have you ever neglected her ? Have you ever wronged her ?

Me, no, no, no, no, no.

When you find THE right person none of those things happen. I dated around quite a bit up until the second half of my junior year in college and the honest to goodness reason I did is because, as pompous as it may sound, I never considered any of them to be my equal. And it was that way until I decided to sign up for the Survey of Western Political Thought - that class changed my life. It was in that class that I saw this absolutely beautiful girl with the most gorgeous smile and the bluest eyes I've ever seen... she was polite, had a good sense of humor, and smart... boy was she smart. I knew I had to ask her out and the funniest thing happened - for the first time ever, I was actually nervous asking this girl out, it was right then and there that I realized that I HAD to make my move or I might very well miss out on the greatest thing that could ever happen to me... I haven't regretted that decision one iota in almost 15 years. She is my friend, she is my partner, she is my equal in every sense of the word. To this day she still makes me want to be a better person just so I can hope to keep up my end of the bargain.

So I can say unequivocally that not only have we never cheated on each other, but for me at least - the thought of such has never even crossed my mind.

When you find the right person... none of those things happen.

Spyder
12-10-07, 12:24 PM
To this day she still makes me want to be a better person just so I can hope to keep up my end of the bargain.

Well said.

Fire and Ice
12-10-07, 04:38 PM
Because their uncle touched them, and now they're sluts with no self-esteem.

Next question.

I've known too many women like this and it's really kind of sad...

Cadillacboy
12-10-07, 05:29 PM
Cheating is no good ,it makes nothing but makes everything bad to worse .Only cheating which is good when you play some pc/PS games lol
I think if your girls love you really, she never cheats on you .Same thing goes for us too but I must admit ......ok ok I stop here :hide:

danbuc
12-10-07, 08:39 PM
My girl I've been seeing now, has cheated on her ex's. I was made privy to this info when I showed up at her house, and she was crying all over the place, and said she need to tell me something, and didn't want me to judge her. In her defense, the last few guys she dated were all a**holes....especially the last one, who keyed up the entire right side of my car and hood over a cat that they had gotten together a year ago. I know she is faithful to me, because I'm not like the other guys she's seen........which might explain why she was so pissed when she found out about the stripclub a few months back:hide:....I was forgiven though. I haven't cheated on her once, and I never will. I've had thoughts...just like any other guy, but I don't act on them. Sure I'd love to f the s outa that hot chick at work...who wouldn't. The point is, that thought stays in my head.

I haven't dated many women, but the few I have dated have all been faithful (to my knowledge at least :suspect:). I have never given them a reason to cheat on me, and they never gave me a reason to cheat on them. My current girl friend, is about as close to what every guy wishes their girl could be now. Funny, beautiful, naughty, cleans up after me, does my laundry, makes me food (all without asking, just because she wants to!:D). She loves family guy, and doesn't mind when I deside to blast Led Zeppelin in the car (she's not a big fan of classic rock, and couldn't tell you that The Count Five sang Psychotic Reaction to save her life). Oh, she loves to watch porn too.:lildevil:

There are always gonna be arguments, and disagreements. Like for example I asked her if she would like to go see an Opera, or catch the New York Philharmonic perform Mussorgsky, or Bach....and she would say Hell No. Then she'll turn around and ask me to download some Soulja Boy, or T Pain song or some crap and I'll just give her a blank stare. We do find some common ground though....like the Police concert we went to at the Garden.

To quote Pat Benatar, "Love is a Battlefield". Common ground between two people in a relationship is essential to keep the tides of war at bay, so to speak. Once you loose that basic understanding, all bets are off. Relationships are tough, especially for young people like myself. I don't wanna be tied down forever, I wanna see what else is out there in the world. At the same time, I don't wanna loose what I have. I think that mindset also plays into the cheating aspect of it all.

As an example, my girl came over crying saying she wanted to break up with me. I asked her why, and her reasoning was this. She told me that I was the "most perfect" guy she'd ever been with, and was afraid that it wasn't going to last (on top of this, she'd had a crush on me for over a year before we started dating). She said, that she'd rather end it now than risk being heartbroken should I ever decide to leave her. My response was this, I can't predict the future. Who knows where it will go. I may meet someone, you may meet someone, we may get bored of each other, you can't predict these things, they just happen. Live in the now, enjoy what we have, and don't think about the future. it's hasn't happened yet, so don't worry. Needless to say, she came to her senses, but it's thoughts like that that can ruin a relationship in a hurry, and drive people to seek fulfillment from outside source (i.e. f**kin' other people).

Anyway, I'm not really sure where I was going with this, since it started out as a simple response to the original post, and turned into a whole philosophical discussion (with myself) about relationships and why they either work or fail. Sorry for anyone who read through it all, and then said, "Why the hell did I just read that whole thing". Stream of consciousness and all that, you know.

Spyder
12-10-07, 08:49 PM
Why the hell did I just read that whole thing?

CadillacGurl
12-10-07, 09:44 PM
Hey it was a good read :thepan:

Jesda
12-10-07, 09:45 PM
I didn't read the whole thing either. Dump her.

CadillacGurl
12-10-07, 09:47 PM
JESSSDA! :thepan: She sounds like a good gf danbuc.

AMGoff
12-10-07, 10:38 PM
My girl I've been seeing now, has cheated on her ex's.....

I'm just going to say this much... I've just gone through something very similar with an old friend of mine. We went to school together and he's the same age as me and he's never been married. He is THE nicest guy in the world, will give you the shirt off his back and gives everyone the benefit of the doubt... but then again that's part of his problem, because he's lousy at finding the right woman. The one he's seeing now is the same old story... twice divorced because she cheated on both of her husbands, let alone how many countless boyfriends. Now he knows that I tend to be brutally honest and I am especially with him... I've been friends with the guy for 26 years - I love and respect him too much not to be. I'll tell you the same exact thing I told him... If they've done it once be very careful - it means they're predisposed to do it again, and if they've done it more than once then get the hell out of there because there is no excuse.

There's nothing wrong with pursuing someone else, but have the common decency to end whatever relationship you're already in first. Some people are just aren't wired to be monogamous... and it's a fool's errand to think you can change somebody...

Jesda
12-10-07, 10:42 PM
Some of us men suffer from Rescue Syndrome. We see a stupid loser and some instinct kicks in and tells us to save her sorry a$$.

A good woman doesn't need you.

AMGoff
12-10-07, 10:51 PM
A good woman doesn't need you.

Well put...

malcolm
12-11-07, 11:52 AM
My girl I've been seeing now, has cheated on her ex's. I was made privy to this info when I showed up at her house, and she was crying all over the place, and said she need to tell me something, and didn't want me to judge her. In her defense, the last few guys she dated were all a**holes....especially the last one, who keyed up the entire right side of my car and hood over a cat that they had gotten together a year ago. I know she is faithful to me, because I'm not like the other guys she's seen........which might explain why she was so pissed when she found out about the stripclub a few months back:hide:....I was forgiven though. I haven't cheated on her once, and I never will. I've had thoughts...just like any other guy, but I don't act on them. Sure I'd love to f the s outa that hot chick at work...who wouldn't. The point is, that thought stays in my head.

I haven't dated many women, but the few I have dated have all been faithful (to my knowledge at least :suspect:). I have never given them a reason to cheat on me, and they never gave me a reason to cheat on them. My current girl friend, is about as close to what every guy wishes their girl could be now. Funny, beautiful, naughty, cleans up after me, does my laundry, makes me food (all without asking, just because she wants to!:D). She loves family guy, and doesn't mind when I deside to blast Led Zeppelin in the car (she's not a big fan of classic rock, and couldn't tell you that The Count Five sang Psychotic Reaction to save her life). Oh, she loves to watch porn too.:lildevil:

There are always gonna be arguments, and disagreements. Like for example I asked her if she would like to go see an Opera, or catch the New York Philharmonic perform Mussorgsky, or Bach....and she would say Hell No. Then she'll turn around and ask me to download some Soulja Boy, or T Pain song or some crap and I'll just give her a blank stare. We do find some common ground though....like the Police concert we went to at the Garden.

To quote Pat Benatar, "Love is a Battlefield". Common ground between two people in a relationship is essential to keep the tides of war at bay, so to speak. Once you loose that basic understanding, all bets are off. Relationships are tough, especially for young people like myself. I don't wanna be tied down forever, I wanna see what else is out there in the world. At the same time, I don't wanna loose what I have. I think that mindset also plays into the cheating aspect of it all.

As an example, my girl came over crying saying she wanted to break up with me. I asked her why, and her reasoning was this. She told me that I was the "most perfect" guy she'd ever been with, and was afraid that it wasn't going to last (on top of this, she'd had a crush on me for over a year before we started dating). She said, that she'd rather end it now than risk being heartbroken should I ever decide to leave her. My response was this, I can't predict the future. Who knows where it will go. I may meet someone, you may meet someone, we may get bored of each other, you can't predict these things, they just happen. Live in the now, enjoy what we have, and don't think about the future. it's hasn't happened yet, so don't worry. Needless to say, she came to her senses, but it's thoughts like that that can ruin a relationship in a hurry, and drive people to seek fulfillment from outside source (i.e. f**kin' other people).

Anyway, I'm not really sure where I was going with this, since it started out as a simple response to the original post, and turned into a whole philosophical discussion (with myself) about relationships and why they either work or fail. Sorry for anyone who read through it all, and then said, "Why the hell did I just read that whole thing". Stream of consciousness and all that, you know.

She's banging anything with a pulse,:highfive: dump her! :stirpot:

yellowxhoodie
12-11-07, 12:21 PM
ive cheated and been cheated on, both suck. hope they never happen again

Destroyer
12-11-07, 01:19 PM
Some of us men suffer from Rescue Syndrome. We see a stupid loser and some instinct kicks in and tells us to save her sorry a$$.

A good woman doesn't need you.I couldn't agree more!. That just about sums it up. If they are too needy or have a sad sad story, do what you gotta do and push em aside till the right one comes along. Kinda wish I thought that way years ago.

danbuc
12-11-07, 08:15 PM
Most of the responses were exactly what I thought I was gonna see....haha. I'll say this much, while we do have a lot of fun....she's not a girl I would marry. She has calmed way down from how she used to be, what with being a little older, and dealing with college and what not. Knowing her past though....there's always that sneaking suspicion in my mind that I don't know what she's doing, or who she's hangin' out with when I'm not around. I am by no means a jealous man as far as women go...never have been. I understand that human nature will do what it wants, regardless of how good, or bad peoples intentions are. I think it's that thought alone that will probably keep me from getting TOO deep into a relationship until I am at a point in my life where "living it up" is no longer a priority. Being a young guy I do kinda feel a little tied down and miss being single. It was nice when I could go to a club, or bar, or whatever knowing that I could hook up with some random chick for fun, and then be on my way. On the other hand, it's nice to have that companionship that goes with having a somewhat serious relationship with someone.

I think Jesda did say it best, a good woman doesn't NEED anyone.

I would love to think that she would never cheat on me. The reality of it though, is that actions do speak louder than words, and trust is a privilege that must be earned, not a right handed out on day one. The fact that I still don't completely trust her bothers me, because I know this relationship is destined to fail. Knowing this, some might say "Get out while you still can!", but I look at it this way. I have little to no free time, and almost no money cause my job blows. These are two key factors that keep me from breaking up, since I have no time or money to go out and find something new. Our relationship has become somewhat stagnant......you know it has when you haven't f**ked in a month. Granted between my job, and her school we don't have a lot of time...but that's really no excuse. It's that sorta thing that's gonna drive me to go party in the city, and hook up with some random chick, which I don't wanna do....:rolleyes: But I've got a bad feeling that that's what it's gonna come to...and if it does then f**k it. We had a good run right? Them's the breaks.

Jesda
12-11-07, 08:38 PM
You haven't banged her in a month because she's too busy banging everyone else.

Me included.

"Sometimes I get the feeling that Ann is cheating." [Office Space]

danbuc
12-11-07, 08:45 PM
You haven't banged her in a month because she's too busy banging everyone else.

Me included.

"Sometimes I get the feeling that Ann is cheating." [Office Space]


"I know what you mean Perterman, just lookin' at her, she seems like the kinda chick that would just....ughh..."

How was she? At least someone's gettin' some...haha. Surely I jest.....

Spyder
12-11-07, 08:58 PM
Don't call me Shirley.

AMGoff
12-11-07, 09:23 PM
I just looked into a 22 year old's mind... it left me confused and slightly disconcerted.

I~LUV~Caddys8792
12-11-07, 10:51 PM
She's banging anything with a pulse,:highfive: dump her! :stirpot:

Hey, I've got a pulse, do you think I could get in on this?

Night Wolf
12-12-07, 09:00 AM
I wanna get in on this... but I got off work a couple hours ago and I'm really tired.... gotta get some sleep, otherwise I'd be up for awhile... my reply could be long.

RightTurn
12-12-07, 11:53 AM
A good woman doesn't need you.

And there you have it. :alchi:

caddy uptown
12-14-07, 11:48 AM
women cheat because they are followers not leaders...
1)men do it First,at work,walking down the street,dreaming,sleeping,shopping..
2)So women get curious & do it also.

GOD I LOVE GIRLS THAT LOVE GIRLS.

Cadillacboy
12-14-07, 12:12 PM
GOD I LOVE GIRLS THAT LOVE GIRLS.


Yep, me too :suspense:

Destroyer
12-14-07, 09:19 PM
Why do women cheat? Cause they are whores, every damn one them.....except the ones on this board of course. :alchi:

Spyder
12-14-07, 09:57 PM
Damnitt Destroyer! Why must you ruin all of my hopes and dreams? What if I, someday, planned on MEETING some of the girls on this board?

By the way, where's Meg??!?!??

I~LUV~Caddys8792
12-14-07, 09:59 PM
She defected.....to Dodge.

Kev
12-14-07, 10:24 PM
It is true that a good woman doesn't need you, but if you are a good man she will want you.

Spyder
12-14-07, 10:46 PM
She defected.....to Dodge.


:umno::whatever::leghumper2:

Jesda
12-14-07, 11:06 PM
By the way, where's Meg??!?!??

She got a life. :D She was a cool chick.

Destroyer
12-14-07, 11:18 PM
Damnitt Destroyer! Why must you ruin all of my hopes and dreams? What if I, someday, planned on MEETING some of the girls on this board?

By the way, where's Meg??!?!??
Hey, they are probably whores too. I was just being nice and giving them the benefit of the doubt. :hide::D