so thanks to HDMLNIUM i checked the gaskets between my cats and lead pipes....attached is the "gasket" which is really just black dust in the rough shape of an oval now

Pic is driver side, pass side is cracked and split, no holes at the moment.
So I "patched" them with copper gasket and bolted it all back....
so then I stripped a resonator clamp and NOBODY in town had a band-style clamp like this...so I bought 2 really super-duty U-style clamps.
so then, while taking off the resonator, i noticed the "gaskets" in the rear between the res and muffler pipes weren't even there anymore, not even all the metal mesh was there....it literally was DUST

again
Scraped all the schmutz off, going to use copper again....no "gasket" at all, just a copper bead. Hope it doesn't leak.
Billy/Dennis....you need to get us REAL gaskets...I'm calling you Monday for clamps and gaskets!!

(and an x-pipe which I want for a "song" due to our troubles)