Internet forums represent the vocal minority. There are fewer than 1000 registered V's here, and over 12,000 of them on the road. I'd bet that over 75% of those people are driving around and enjoying the car, as opposed to nitpicking every TSB and recall like we do here.
As for me, I've had some problems but they're nothing compared to what owners of Ferraris deal with ($10,000 for a timing belt and valve job every two years??!!), so I could care less. Not only can I spank any car on the road except a Viper or Z06, but I get tons of comments at stoplights and gas stations about how sweet my car is.
I'm thrilled to own this car, and wouldn't sell it given the chance. We had a customer the other day looking for a used V, and one of the Salesman asked me if I'd sell him mine- I said, "No thanks."
